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Ed Van Dorn's avatar

Regarding Q. 2. Many years ago as part of my recovery I entered counseling. In trying to answer the counselor's questions I realized that language is a poor vehicle for expression of the human psyche. I finally said to him, "look if each part of my brain was represented by an instrument in a symphonic orchestra and each instrument was able to convey what was going on in different partsof my me, then maybe I could sort of answer your question: How are you feeling?" It was shortly after that I began studying eastern thought in earnest. I then understood that language is binary and the psyche is anything but.

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Michael Voy's avatar

With respect to question #3, there comes to mind there are at least two types of pain, physical and mental or emotional pain. The former, physical pain has been addressed by an athletic cliche, “no pain no gain.” The Marine Corps has also addressed physical pain as ,”Pain is weakness leaving the body.” If these make sense the answer to #3 is yes. Turning now to emotional pain, the answer seems more elusive. When walking down the street, someone encounters a homeless drug addicted begged. Is there not an initial pain response? For some if there is it is not evident , as they continue on their way. Others stop to share some money, advice or offer other assistance. For those who regularly do this or those who set out to find needy individuals, it seems there is no initial pain only an opportunity. However, this does not address the pain that I shall call resultant pain. This pain arises when the observer lacks the resources to provide meaningful assistance, or worse giving assistance means risking one’s own wellbeing. This is we’re #3 really becomes , in my view, reverent. Is the pain innately inevitable, or is is source societal expectations generated by religion, fairytales, or hero worship for those who lost their health or life in saving or attempting to save another! A go fund me account cannot replace a mother, father husband or wife,etc. So an attempt to alleviate pain actually generates more pain. Back in the 60a or 70s, there was a fairly often repeated cliche, “don’t try to lay your guilt trip on me.” I find it interesting that my thoughts on question #3 are also relevant to quotation #1.

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